The major problem of marrying a non-virgin is that the woman might still have unfinished 'business' with whoever broke her virginity, or at least one of her ex-boyfriends who would have played the juicy 'hide my sausage' game with her before marriage.
This might be the reason behind a Bulawayo man's marital problems amid reports that he caught his wife having sex with another man shortly after their wedding day. Armson Ndlovu, could not come to terms with the fact that his wife, whom he wedded and vowed to spend the rest of his life with, till death do them part, could not afford to at least spend the first month without cheating, it is alleged.
Ndlovu, who resides in Emakhandeni suburb in Bulawayo bared it all at a Bulawayo court where he revealed that he started cheating on his wife after she cheated on him first a few days after their wedding.
For retaliating through cheating on his wife, Ndlovu was thoroughly bashed by his wife's sisters, Progress Mazanhi and Sithabile Mabandla. In fact, Ndlovu was reportedly caught red-handed, busy like a rabbit, having sex with his wife's cousin who was only identified as Beverly - a name whose owners normally court so much controversy, even in Dramas.
Ndlovu was seeking a protection order against his sisters-in-law who he accused of negatively interfering in his marriage. According to him, all was fine between himself and his wife because she cheated on him, and he cheated on her too, thereby 'balancing the equation'. But Mazanhi and Mabandla, he claimed, were the trouble causers in his marriage, hence he wanted them barred from poking their nose into his bedroom life.
"I am tired of being beaten up by Mazanhi and Mabandla and I am seeking a protection order against them before they injure me," he said.
In response, Mazanhi wasted her brother-in-law's dirty linen in public and revealed that she caught him red-handed, having sex with Beverly their cousin.
"He is lying, problems started after we caught him having sex with our cousin called Beverly. He was also caught with another girlfriend. He is always seen in town flirting with Beverly and other girlfriends," she said.
Mabandla, who reportedly took part in beating the freaking lights out of Ndlovu when they caught him feeding his 'anaconda' on their cousin's 'bedroom goodies' said she is in possession of Ndlovu's sexy pictures with some of his girlfriends.
Ndlovu did not deny being caught having sex with his wife's cousin, instead, he justified his cheating by revealing that he was merely revenging after he caught his wife having sex with another man a few days after their wedding.
"I caught my wife cheating on me a week after our wedding but I forgave her after I engaged her uncle," he said, supposedly trying to express that he too expected his wife's sisters to equally forgive him.